In a few words, they arent fulfilled and happy in the state where theyre in. That really shocked and I feel he should have told me from the start as we have known each other for three years and we go into the relationship for 1.5 years. This time, their feelings are stronger and they are pondering their decision. Weeks to a few months post breakup- Fast forward a couple of weeks, they'll go out with their friends, go out to movies, possibly meet someone else, go to parties and in some cases, find a "mate" that is merely their 'padding'a FWB sort of thing if you will. They say and do things out of self-defense to protect themselves from emotional pain. Do not force them to meet you if they arent willing to. Sure, theres plenty of fish in the sea but most of them may not be your type. But certainly, they will. Even if the relationship didnt work out or they lost interest, they will think about the dumpee at some point. Well, not really when it comes to pinpointing when the dumper will start missing the dumpee. Lets be friends.. At the time my brain was off on another planet, and I wasn't seeing things very clearly. But, this doesnt last forever and when it wears off, the sudden shock and realization that they may have lost you become apparent. they miss you everyday, especially if it was a LTR, but best way to make them miss you to the point of regretting what they did would be to completely disappearNC NC NC, it worked for me, 40 days NC I got a long email from my ex apologizing for everything, saying she messed up etc etc and we are now taking things, slow, hanging out and communicating and will see what happens from here. A relationship has many ups and downs. Especially, if you have started dating someone else and your relationship is healthier. If the relationship was toxic then the dumpee doesnt make an instant decision. The second stage of dumpers remorse is filled with flashbacks and them trying to keep in motion. And says I dont want that with her because Ive already done that with a woman . The dumper is trying to navigate through their new route and trying to connect it with their decisions. Now I am the dumpee, and I know a lot of people may say I shouldn't even be concerned with whether or not my dumper misses me. Learn how your comment data is processed. I created this site in hopes of sharing my experience, knowledge and opinions on attracting the best partner as well as cultivating better relationships. I've read that too, that LTR's have the best odds at reconciliation. I would actually counter and say that the length of relationship does matter and its possibly even harder for you than someone who has been dating for half a year or more.
